"Worldly love vs Spritual love"

I wrote a poem a few months back on "Is Love Real or an Illusion"  Lately, I have been reflecting back on that poem and thoughts of that poem.  I suffer from my definition of what love should really be.  It seems no one shares in how I view love.  I think I am too much of a romantic,so it stifles me with love. What is love anyways? Does it even exist in this world anymore?  Love exist, but only in the way the world feels loves should be.  What happened to spiritual love.  Having love that God blesses and keeps together. I love so hard that sometimes I get lost in what love should really be.  Are you a worldly lover or a spiritual lover

When you feel love for your partner, are you giving all of yourself
When you hold your partner, is it only them you are thinking of when you embrace them
Do you know your partner so well, that you can feel their emotions, feel their pain, their happiness
Do you give freely of yourself , opening your soul to your partner
When you tell them you love them, does your heart flutter when the words "I love you" are spoken
When your alone, does your mind get filled with thoughts of them, visions of your love for them
When others try to seduce you, do you turn that person away, never to give it a second thought
Holding them in your arms, do you feel a complete oneness with your partner
Do you know as a matter of fact that this partner is who you will commit your life to
Do you pray with your partner and ask blessings from God to bind your souls together
Do you feel complete when you are with your partner
Do you die daily for your partner with sacrifices of self for them to insure their happiness
Laying next to them at night do your bodies fit together like they were made for each other
Can you open your mind to them and be completely vulnerable ,opening every aspect of you to your partner
Will you marry your partner and commit forever to them
Is there anything you hide from them, keep in secret or do you want to share everything inside you with them
Do you pray for your partner, more than you pray for yourself
When you are away from your partner, do you feel as if your other half is gone
Are you binded by the souls of one another and feel it in your mind, heart and the depths of your soul
When they came into your life, did you feel they were made just for you and only you
Did you feel as if they were God-sent

All these questions are really statements on what a true spiritual love should consist of.  If your relationships lacks any of the above than you only share in Worldly love.  Spritual love is to be complete. Worldly love is to conform and accept what the world defines love in a relationship to be. I honestly think that only very few in this world will be blessed enough to share in a love that can be so profound and defined by the way God defines "Love in a relationship".  I personally have only shared in a worldly love.  I only pray that someday I can also come to know that spiritual love. 

Written by
Cresha